Commenting on a spat between musician James Blunt and shadow culture minister Chris Bryant, the former Labour cabinet minister Lord Mandelson warned against attempts to "divide up society".
He told BBC2's Newsnight that he was unaware of what Mr Bryant and Blunt had said but added:
Lord Mandelson has called on the Conservatives to stop grandstanding for the Ukip vote by demanding a referendum on Britain's membership of the European Union.
The former European Commissioner and Labour Cabinet minister said the EU needed reform but talk of leaving only created uncertainty for investors and would threaten British jobs.
The Labour peer, who was speaking as the European Union (Referendum) Bill reached its second reading in the House of Lords, said he believed it was possible to win the argument for Britain to remain part of the EU if it was put to a public vote.
He said: "We need to concentrate on using all of our influence and energy in building up Britain's influence in Europe, not driving Britain out of Europe.
"This Bill is not about changing or improving the EU, it is indeed stage one in raising impossible demands on the European Union in order to create the pretext for leaving it."
"My message to the Government is stop grandstanding to the Ukip gathering. If you are really serious about European reform, you have to go out and work for it and join with others in achieving it," he added.
Lord Mandelson has claimed that Ed Miliband risks accusations of taking the Labour party backwards with his pledge to freeze energy bills.
The former EU trade commissioner Peter Mandelson has accused eurosceptic politicians of "operating a sort of Sopranos-style protection racket inside the Conservative party".
He told BBC1's Andrew Marr Show:
David Cameron must “turn down the heat” on Europe or risk losing allies in his attempt to reshape Britain’s relationship with Brussels, former European Commissioner Lord Mandelson has told The Times (£).
The former Labour Cabinet minister said Britain’s natural allies in Europe were losing patience with the Government’s “foot-stomping strategy” of threatening vetos if Mr Cameron does not get his way.