Lord Condon said in a statement to the inquiry: "In my view hospitality can be the start of a grooming process which leads to inappropriate and unethical behaviour."
He added: "In any walk of life, hospitality can be appropriate, can be sensible, can be necessary, can be ethical.
"But on the other side of that, it can lead to inappropriate closeness, and in some cases that can lead to criminal behaviour."
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