Najma Hafeez, from Birmingham, has told ITV News she believes police attempts to enlist Muslim mothers to stop their sons going to war is "very patronising".
She added that Muslim mothers are the same as any other mothers in not wanting their child to go to a war zone:
More top news
Gunmen have attacked the Intercontinental Hotel in Kabul with casualties feared.
The Grammy-winning singer posted a picture of the two on his Instagram saying the two got engaged right before the new year.