Oops! You need to enable JavaScript in your browser to start watching. Guidance: Contains strong language. Disable parental controls Enable parental controls ITVBe The Only Way is Essex Series 14 - Episode 4 Reality series. In an emotional episode, Lydia and Debbie are each heartbroken over their war of words concerning Arg, while Vas opens up to Lauren about his sexuality. Thu Thursday 6 Jun 11.50pm 45 mins 1 month left Share this episode: Copied to clipboard Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Copy link to share