Oops! You need to enable JavaScript in your browser to start watching. Guidance: Contains strong language. Disable parental controls Enable parental controls The Only Way is Essex Series 14 - Episode 4 Reality series. In an emotional episode, Lydia and Debbie are each heartbroken over their war of words concerning Arg, while Vas opens up to Lauren about his sexuality. 50 mins Share this episode: Copied to clipboard Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Copy link to share