Certain venues, including Cheltenham and Belfast's crematoria, won't allow any mourners inside chapels.
Many councils including Greenwich, Birmingham and Cardiff are drastically reducing attendees - with Greenwich specifying as few as five mourners.
Medway Crematorium instruct mourners "not to touch or kiss the coffin", while in Eltham it is prohibited to "place flowers on the coffin".
Official guidelines say only household members or close family should attend. In Northern Ireland there's a six-person limit for funerals.
One funeral director, John Barsby, told us: "Family members have been turned away and its made an acutely emotional time even worse.
"We have families that are in the crematorium knowing their loved ones are outside and can't attend."
Haji's brother-in-law, Shokat Lal, told us: "Only 10 people can go to the burial and people have been absolutely devastated.
"I've had people crying on the phone inconsolable. The biggest tragedy in all of this is that when it was his time the community could not come together for him, like he came together for other people."
When I met Bill's daughter, Sabrina Marley, in Plymouth she told me: "We can't have the wake with all his friends and family and we can't say our goodbyes the way we wanted to.
"I will be going into a funeral ceremony with four other people."
With social distancing rules in place she cannot comfort her mother.
"You can't replace a hug and a shoulder to cry on with talking down the telephone ... I just want to be able to give my mum and my brother a hug."
As we now distance from those who most need our comfort, people in the agony of grief are denied the most human aspects of consolation.
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