Problem gambling: The signs to look out for and where to seek help
What are the signs to look out for?
Is your gambling causing problems for you or others around you? Here is some advice from BeGambleAware on the signs to look out for:
Spending more money and time on gambling than you can afford.
Finding it hard to manage or stop your gambling.
Having arguments with family or friends about money and gambling.
Losing interest in usual activities or hobbies like going out with friends or spending time with family.
Always thinking or talking about gambling.
Lying about your gambling or hiding it from other people.
Chasing losses or gambling to get out of financial trouble.
Gambling until all of your money is gone.
Borrowing money, selling possessions or not paying bills in order to pay for gambling.
Needing to gamble with larger amounts of money or for a longer time to get the same feeling of excitement or buzz.
Neglecting work, school, family, personal needs or household responsibilities because of gambling.
Feeling anxious, worried, guilty, depressed or irritable.
Being a compulsive gambler can harm your health and relationships, and leave you in serious debt.
If you have a problem with gambling and you would like to stop, support and treatment is available. The following questionnaire and advice is from the NHS:
Are you a problem gambler?
Try this questionnaire:
Do you bet more than you can afford to lose?
Do you need to gamble with larger amounts of money to get the same feeling?
Have you tried to win back money you have lost (chasing losses)?
Have you borrowed money or sold anything to get money to gamble?
Have you wondered whether you have a problem with gambling?
Has your gambling caused you any health problems, including feelings of stress or anxiety?
Have other people criticised your betting or told you that you had a gambling problem (regardless of whether or not you thought it was true)?
Has your gambling caused any financial problems for you or your household?
Have you ever felt guilty about the way you gamble or what happens when you gamble?
Score 0 for each time you answer "never"Score 1 for each time you answer "sometimes" Score 2 for each time you answer "most of the time" Score 3 for each time you answer "almost always"
If your total score is 8 or higher, you may be a problem gambler.
Help for problem gamblers
There is evidence that gambling can be successfully treated in the same way as other addictions. Cognitive behavioural therapy usually has the best results.
Treatment and support groups are available for people who want to stop gambling:
GamCare GamCare offers free information, support and counselling for problem gamblers in the UK.
It runs the National Gambling Helpline (0808 8020 133) and also offers face-to-face counselling.
National Problem Gambling Clinic If you live in England or Wales, are aged 16 or over and have complex problems related to gambling, you can refer yourself to this specialist NHS clinic for problem gamblers.
See if you meet the criteria for this service.
Gordon Moody Association The Gordon Moody Association offers residential courses for men and women who have problems with gambling – email firstname.lastname@example.org or call 01384 241292 to find out more.
It also runs the Gambling Therapy website, which offers online support to problem gamblers and their friends and family.
Gamblers Anonymous UK Gamblers Anonymous UK runs local support groups that use the same 12-step approach to recovery from addiction as Alcoholics Anonymous. There are also GamAnon support groups for friends and family.
Self-help tips for problem gamblers
pay important bills, such as your mortgage, on payday before you gamble
spend more time with family and friends who don't gamble
deal with your debts rather than ignoring them – visit the National Debtline for tips
view gambling as a way to make money – try to see it as entertainment instead
bottle up your worries about your gambling – talk to someone
take credit cards with you when you go gambling
For more self-help tips, see the Royal College of Psychiatrists website.
If you are affected by someone's gambling
If you are having problems because of another person's gambling, it is best to be honest with them about it. They need to know how their behaviour is affecting you.
Support is also available to people who are worried about someone else's gambling:
Gamcare offers support and information for partners, friends and family of people who gamble compulsively.
GamAnon Local support groups for anyone affected by someone else's gambling problem – find your nearest group.
Other support services available: