Mental Health Awareness: Young Afghan woman born with facial deformity says 'I am beautiful'
Hadisa Hussain Afzaly spoke to Lucy Meacock in an extended interview
A young woman from Afghanistan who was born with a severe facial deformity says she now feels accepted by the people of Manchester for her appearance.
Hadisa Hussain Afzaly, 26, was born in Kabul in 1997 when the Taliban first ruled Afghanistan.
She was rejected by some members of her family for the way she looked.
Hadisa said: "Some of my Dad's family didn't really want me. They told my Dad that he should leave me somewhere in a busy market.
"I had nicknames in Afghanistan. I was not known as Hadisa. I was known as 'the Devil's child', or 'the little blindy'.
"I would openly hear these things. It would be so hurtful. I see my parents as angels. How am I a devil's child?
"My heart breaks for my Dad. He had to go through so much to fight for his daughter to be accepted."
An abridged version of Hadisa's interview
Hadisa came to the attention of two British surgeons from Doctors Without Borders that her Dad took her to in Kabul.
The surgeons could only operate during the day when light shone through the shell hole in their operating theatre because there was no electricity.
They took her to the UK for further surgery. She needed a functioning mouth and further tissue around her brain to help reconstruct her face.
Hadisa said: "One of my coping mechanisms is that I express myself as a third person. That way I can get through Hadisa and see how she feels.
"That way I can tell my story. She [Hadisa] is a human being. She's got the same desires, she's got dreams and life ahead of her."
The surgeries in the UK saved her life and Hadisa feels grateful for the help she received.
She said: "I hate how society judges people on how they look. People with perfect bodies do surgeries. Even a good healthy person is judged on how they look.
"As a woman, we are always judged on how we look."
Her father has always described her as beautiful.
Hadisa said: "I am beautiful. You have to learn about me and my heart to understand how beautiful I am."
Hadisa now lives in Manchester. She studies English and creative writing at Manchester Metropolitan University. She also campaigns to restore education for women in Afghanistan.
She said: "Manchester has become my home. I'm really loving it. It's a city of literature. I always meet the most wonderful people here.
"In this country, I do feel accepted. And even if I don't, I know what my rights are and if I feel someone treating me really bad, I know what I'm doing now."
When asked her advice on what someone should do if they are currently bullying someone, Hadisa said, "when someone bullies someone else, it's sometimes an issue they're having in life. They're so much hate in the world, we don't need more.
"We need to create love and peace for people to live as happy and content as they can."
Facing The World is a UK-registered charity, promoting surgery for children with facial differences
Afghan Aid supports men, women and children across Afghanistan to claim their rights and lift themselves out of poverty
Doctors Without Borders is a charity that provides humanitarian medical care
CALM, the Campaign Against Living Miserably, runs a free and confidential helpline and webchat. It also supports those bereaved by suicide, through the Support After Suicide Partnership (SASP). Call 0800 585858 (daily, 5pm to midnight).
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Shout is a 24/7 text service, free on all major mobile networks, for anyone struggling to cope and in need of immediate help. Text SHOUT to 85258.
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