Sextortion victim shares ordeal after being threatened with release of intimate images

  • ITV Granada Reports Correspondent Elaine Willcox reports as a victim of sextortion recounts his ordeal.


A man who fell victim as a teenager to criminals demanding money from him and threatening to share his intimate images has opened up about his ordeal.

The man, who ITV News are calling Peter, was 13 when he became a victim of sextortion after believing he was talking to a girl online.

He was manipulated into exposing himself and was told that his intimate pictures would be shared with his family, unless Peter sent them more explicit pictures.

The abuse only stopped when he told his mother.

"Peter" now has an interest in privacy and cyber security and wants to help prevent it happening to others. Credit: ITV News (Stock Image)

Peter was spending time on Skype within a gaming community and regularly speaking to people he did not know. He was contacted online and was led to believe someone was interested in him.

Peter said: “I remember someone saying this girl was keen, and I added her on Skype. I thought I was talking to someone my age – I had no idea it was going to turn into blackmail.”

Peter explained that the situation escalated quickly. His Skype account was linked to Facebook and his friends list was public, with comments and likes on photos revealing family members – which the offender then used to threaten him.

He said: “It felt like the whole thing turned on its head. I was shocked, and at 13 it was hard to process. The threat of them sending it to my family was terrifying.”

Sextortion

What is sextortion?

Sextortion is a form of online blackmail where criminals threaten to share sexual images or information unless a victim pays money or complies with demands.

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How do criminals pressure victims?

Sextortion includes Financially Motivated Sexual Extortion (FMSE), where offenders demand money, and Blackmail for Further Images (BFFI), where offenders pressure victims into sending more content under threat of exposure.

Offenders often use fake profiles, quickly steer conversations into private spaces and exploit fear and embarrassment to keep control.

In many cases, sextortion is linked to organised criminals, including offenders operating from overseas, and can escalate rapidly from initial contact to threats.

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After a brief period, Peter told his mum, who supported him and challenged the offender over Skype. The contact then stopped.

Peter says it has only become easier to speak about his experience in recent years and he now realises how much it affected him, including shaping his interest in privacy and cyber security.

He added: “At the time I didn’t report it, but I wish I had. Reporting gives the police a chance to identify offenders and stop them harming other people.”

"Peter" was manipulated into exposing himself on Skype. Credit: ITV News (Stock Image)

Merseyside Police dealt with 576 cases in the 12 months up to September 2025, with more male teenagers being targeted.Detective Sergeant Danny Gavin said the force is stepping up enforcement and prevention activity to tackle sextortion and encouraging people to come forward.

DS Gavin said: “Sextortion is blackmail. Offenders use threats and coercion to try to control victims, and we want people to know they will be taken seriously and supported if they report.

“Our specialist investigators are relentless in their pursuit of offenders. We’ll follow the evidence wherever it leads, and work across borders when we need to, to identify offenders and put them before the courts.”

Support for victims of sextortion

StopNCII (Stop Non-Consensual Intimate Image Abuse)

A tool designed to prevent the online sharing of non-consensual intimate images. The tool works by generating a hash from your intimate image(s)/video(s).

StopNCII.org then shares the hash with participating companies so they can help detect and remove the images from being shared online.

Website: https://stopncii.org/

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Childline Report Remove

Childline work with the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) and Yoti to help remove any sexual image or video of you that’s online.

Website: https://www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/bullying-abuse-safety/online-mobile-safety/report-remove/

Phone: 0800 1111

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